After the New Year’s party this guy from the design team (who I used to have a thing for) told me I’m “incongruent.”
I was totally shocked.
I even looked it up online and apparently it means I come off as fake or hypocritical.
We’re supposed to go on a training together in a week, and I honestly have no idea how I’m going to deal with him.
Any advice? Thanks!

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  • Abena Okyerewa Siaw

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    Best answer

    Just withdraw your feelings and remain professional

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  • if you feel him too, just draw a clear line btn work and that intimate relationship

  • Don't let pitfalls to affect you. You were assignee to do training so partake. The guy is at the same team as you don't become too negative towards... him only a manager can inform  more

  • I don’t know your faith level but pray before you go into the training.

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  • just remain ON-GUARD with your professional composure and ONLY say to him when asked and keep every answer short and sweet

  • You are there to do a job. Remove your feelings. The world is collapseing around us because of Liberals feelings . Please Stop the craziness.

  • Just withdraw your feelings and remain professional

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  • Let you only stick together for the one reason that made you meet.

  • Just remain calm and professional for the sake of work and once training is done part ways.