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  • My boss gave me a poor review after I refused to work on weekends. I don't have proof it was retaliation. If I challenge the review and lose, I could make my situation much worse. Would you fight it?

    I had a boss who wrote bad reviews on me almost every Friday. I would go back home in tears. Finally I asked her: Am I really that bad. Why do you... always write about me? You are singling me out. You don't pay that much attention to other workers. Then my husband helped me understand that my spritual believes where not in agreement with the politics at my work and it would be good for me to reitre earlier. He helped me and as soon as our budget was good ( we paid off our mortage ) I retired. And I am very happy. I know, every one's situation is different and most of my life I had to work and suffer " injustice and bad bosses " - but these were my spiritual lessons, sometimes of paying off karma from past lives, sometimes a lesson of building strenght and detachment . The last job, my husband asked me: why do you react. Stop reaciting and she will eventually stop writing you up. I did ... at the very end. When I knew I would retire soon. Before that I always tried to explain, tell the  more