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  • My wife thinks my female coworker is too close to me and has asked me to stop working with her. There is absolutely nothing romantic between us, but my wife says my job isn't worth risking our...

    Quiting your job is definatley not a good option , sometimes people come into marriage with a lot of emotional wounds and as a spouse you are expected... to automatiacally know them,heal them and even take the punishment for something that was never caused by you to begin with which is not a good thing.A person who cannot trust will not trust you even if you can bring the moon down to earth ,they dont even see that you are there for them as their safe space because their focus is on this one thing that is triggered by past experiences.You are the one who knows your wife better than anyone try to suggest some therapy sessions where you will understand exactly where is this behaviour coming from.If that female collegue has all the signs of things you desired from your wife (peace,love,compassion,companionship e.t.c ) you will fall inlove with her unintentionally because she provides for you exactly what you need emotionally.If you dont adress this you will be a victim of emotional abuse fo more