Insecure women prefer control over men. Just have a boundary with your coworker but please keep the job. The marriage lasts as long as you provide,... stop working you will lose your wife  more

I agree with Bello Ibrahim Yusuf: ask your wife specifically what is making her uncomfortable. Requesting a transfer is an option, but trust me, no... job change will make an insecure partner feel secure.

Women make up a huge portion of today's workforce, and working in diverse teams is standard practice. Quitting won't solve anything—you'll end up working with women at your next job, too. Unless she expects you to stay home while she works (and she avoids male coworkers herself), running from the situation isn't realistic. There is Counciling more

Women know how women move. The fact that your wife can see it and you don't work together already speaks volumes.

Change how you interact with your cooworker

let the gal go simple

of your life ,emotional abuse is far worse than physical abuse because nobody sees it .You also matter,your emotions matter ,you deserve to be heard... as well.Dont quit your job more

Quiting your job is definatley not a good option , sometimes people come into marriage with a lot of emotional wounds and as a spouse you are expected... to automatiacally know them,heal them and even take the punishment for something that was never caused by you to begin with which is not a good thing.A person who cannot trust will not trust you even if you can bring the moon down to earth ,they dont even see that you are there for them as their safe space because their focus is on this one thing that is triggered by past experiences.You are the one who knows your wife better than anyone try to suggest some therapy sessions where you will understand exactly where is this behaviour coming from.If that female collegue has all the signs of things you desired from your wife (peace,love,compassion,companionship e.t.c ) you will fall inlove with her unintentionally because she provides for you exactly what you need emotionally.If you dont adress this you will be a victim of emotional abuse fo more

ask you wife for threesome like anybody else

Since you said there is nothing romantic between the two of you, do not stop work. If you do you will just prove otherwise that there is something... happening. more

Move on! You have been ranting about your wife since 2019. No one cares about your marital issues more than you. You are creating unnecessary... workplace issues by constantly referencing a wife no one is thinking about. I don't care. We don't care. No one cares. Please keep your marital issues out of the workplace! We don't even need to know who your wife is. The only thing we need from you is your job done. Thank you! I don't want to hear about your wife again.  more

End it with the coworker immediately! Request a change. Ask for a male coworker.

Your wife sees better and knows better how it will end. It's a... matter of time.

Obey her NOW! Or regret later more

You may not have emotional attachment with your colleague, but how do you know what the colleague is thinking. Every relationship does not just... happen; there is a starting point. My advice is to maintain a professional boundary before you lose your family. more

Lose the marriage. She clearly has trust issues with you, and you will make blind decisions coz of her. And when things go south, and you don't have a... job anymore, she will leave you either way.
So better to keep your job and lose the wife, than to lose both. more

Just be honest to yourself first ensuring there is no emotional attachment between you and your colleague.
2.Be honest to your co worker snd make it... clear to her that you are married snd there is no room for entertainment.
3.Be honest to your wife by assuring her your that closeness is not love but work chemistry.You just vibe bt there is nothing going on btn the two of you. more

No need to quit your job else you justify the closeness. Just tell your coworker to try to minimize closeness and keep it professional. Good luck.

Do you Billy Graham Rule with this female coworker? Because even without a suspicious wife, your relationship with this coworker is now a liability.

Yoi need to speak with your spouse. Ask why the reservation. Then, if your supervisor assigned the working teams, you need to speak with him/her... before cutting ties.  more

Listen to your wife seriously. Even if there is nothing romantic, her feelings of insecurity are real. Ask what specifically makes her uncomfortable.

Listen to your wife seriously. Even if there is nothing romantic, her feelings of insecurity are real. Ask what specifically makes her uncomfortable.

Then listen to your wife she is right. Women have a discerning spirit