Hey everyone! I work at a small company and don’t make much — honestly, I can barely get by. What really drives me crazy is that every month we all have to pitch in for coworkers’ birthday gifts. At this rate, I’ll go broke! How can I say no to these collections? Or should I just ask for a raise instead?
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  • David Kafuko

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    Why get driven by peer pressure. Just do what you feel works for you.

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  • Everyone seems to be saying find a better paying job. Easier said than done. Isn't that the grass is greener syndrome? Also aren't we taking the... problems with us to the new job if we find one? Aren't we the ones creating most of our problems?
    If you have $5000 and 1/2 decent credit score, 640+ accept some help to design a $5 million business, Where you will make 500 K to 1.5M net profit each year after third year.
     more

  • Energetic and smart. I think I would choose smartness ,he could be energetic.
    However, you have interacted with them and you already know who... actually you need.

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  • Start looking for a new job with better pay and opportunities to grow within the company. As far as right now inform your employer unfortunately you... are not able to partake nor participate in the birthday activities due to your financial duties outside of work which has a direct impact on your stability/livelihood. more

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  • The office gift pool process can be either be a fun, flexibly-run, relatively low cost feature of office life or a joyless and potentially burdensome... ritual. It depends on the culture, rules and how it's run.

    Is the gift amount one is expected to give per B-day prescribed or left up to the donor? Is the amount one donates "published" or private? Is an individual free to opt out of the pool (and take a pass on both giving and receiving) without any social stigma attached? Is the collection envelope landing on your desk one or two times a month or twice a week? (If it's twice a month and one contributes $5.00 per birthday, that's $120 for the year. )

    Finally, does the giving and receiving contribute to genuine joy on the part of givers and recipients or is it simply one more office "ritual"? Personally, I enjoyed the funny group office cards I received with my colleague's signatures and congratulations more than any trinkets.
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  • I say continue to give what it can pray over it. It’s better to give then to receive. Give and it will be given unto you good measure pressed down... shaken together and running over, not just from God but from man too.  more

  • they can't make you do that. and i personally don't. if they try to fire you for it, you have a lawsuit against them

  • If youd like to appear thoughtful you can offer to buy the card ($2-$6) or you buy one bulk box of birthday cards (1 time cost $20) or if theres... always a 'birthday coordinator' give them a one time 'donation' of say $50 and tell them to decide how to dole that out as the year goes on.

    Or politely say no (excuses: Im saving up for something, Im helping out with a family issue, Id like to give more to charity this year.) Do this a few times (always for the same 'reason') and theyll stop asking.

    Want to be the hero? Figure out who else cant afford this company generosity and coordinate ALL of you saying no.
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  • No is a complete sentence.

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  • Don’t ask. Politely insist.

  • Why get driven by peer pressure. Just do what you feel works for you.

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