Hello! What would you do in my situation? Yesterday was my first day at a new job. I went through a long interview process and was super excited to get hired. But then I was totally shocked to see my ex working in the next department. For the record, I was the one who left him before our wedding.
How am I supposed to work next to him now?

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  • Mary-Ellen England

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    Cordially, professionally and without feelings of guilt

  • Strickly on a professional level

  • Great pitch for a Netflix rom-com. Take notes of what happens and get an agent

  • Act like u dont see em🤧

  • Okay, let's get into it! 😅 So, you're feeling pretty shaken up, and that's totally understandable. Here's what I'd suggest: take a deep breath and... prioritize yourself. Before you do anything, make sure you're emotionally okay. Maybe take some time to process your feelings and talk to someone you trust about what happened.
    When you're ready, consider reaching out to HR or your supervisor to discuss the situation. They might be able to help with things like seating arrangements, project assignments, or even mediation if needed.
    As for interacting with your ex, you don't have to be super friendly or acknowledge them if you don't feel like it. Keep it professional, and focus on your work. If you need to communicate with them, keep it work-related and brief.
    How does that sound? What do you think you'll do first? May god helps us all.
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  • Ma that's a tough spot! 😬 I can imagine how shocking that must've been. Okay, let's break it down. Have you talked to your HR or supervisor about the... situation? They might be able to help you figure out a way to minimize interactions or make some adjustments to make you feel more comfortable.

    Also, how do you feel about seeing your ex again? Are you feeling anxious, angry, or maybe a mix of emotions?
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  • Just be professional & continue working as if nothing happened between the 2 of you.

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  • Leave him on the SLAVEship, and become a BUSINESS OWNER (not worker). Inbox me for more info!

  • It can be a very uncomfortable situation, but it's doable. IF you are over him, it shouldn't be a problem, right? Be very professional. Don't let... others know you are his ex or anything personal. Life moves on and you and him should too. If you feel very uncomfortable, see if you can move your desk or work in a different department without saying too much about WHY. Do NOT interact with him by text, email, or otherwise UNLESS it's on a professional basis. Do your job well, help others, be of service, get paid, and go home. If you cannot bear it, find a different job asap. Let us know how it worked out for you. more

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  • It would only look ugly if you would be reporting to him or vice versa. Just operate professionally and assume no relationship ever exited.

  • Bear with the situation.

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  • All of that. Leave the past in the past. Smile & be professional. Imust repeat-DoNOT tell any of your co-workers.

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  • You relationship with him has nothing to do with your official duties. So, continue with your official duties while maintaining good relationship with... your colleagues, including him. more

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  • Embracing professionalism

  • An existing an x for a reason. Remember why you made the decision to move forward alone and smile.

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  • All of the above.AND do not tell your new coworkers or friends anything about your past situation. Doing so may sabotage your career growth.

  • Be a professional that’s all

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  • Cordially, professionally and diligently,.deal with the situation at hand in a mature and responsible way. Give the job what it takes and let it be... paramount more

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  • Just think of what brought you here, and focus on it period

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  • Think of what brought you there, and focus

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  • The goal is to work get paid and moved on (we come to work to work)

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