I'm curious and seek all input to consider. I was video recorded. By a co-worker unaware until. The OM called me to the office with the allegation. I threatened a client/participant, the experience. Was a de-humanizing blindsided attempted. By the co-worker recording to get me fired, I feel but. In the end I was in tears begging. To keep my job I'm a DSP w/autistic individuals 17 years now. I felt defamed and as a gentleman of color. 60 days in I feel there went any opportunity. To advance dispite my education and experience. I requested a copy of the obviously edited video. But the OM has not responded and its been three weeks now. What would you do? What do you think about the whole matter, in general?
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    Let me provide more context, I saw the video you can tell it's edited. It omits all context it's about 15 seconds. And only shows me turning to face... the participant. And asking firmly, "what are you going to do". In ference to his clothes mildewing in the washing machine. Almost two days, that's it. The video is a malicious attempt by a co-worker. To hide or divert attention from the real issue. That being her personal issue with me after turning down. An inappropriate engagement on the job. Me turning down her invite to go out. Coupled with me verbalizing to her openly. My issue with her performance on the job. That directly adversely affected my ability to. Do my job because we work in the same rehab home. Thank you all for your feedback it's provided things I need to consider. I hadn't thought about yet.  more

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    The allegations is a false narrative, I'm threatening the client. I saw the video I'm not yelling. Or being irate just firm asking the client. And... there staff what they are going to do about the mildewing clothes? I don't curse, or get in anyone's personal space.  more

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  • If this is a state facility no one can record you. Except the facility cameras. Push back tell the you want to see the video and look at the rules to... see if recording is allowed.  more

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  • Start looking for another job if there is no room for advancement at this company and is your job at will or fire without cause. Also if you were... recorded actually doing what they say you did you probably don't need to work at that job. Find a job that won't have you losing it with the clients. Otherwise seek help for the outburst and/or watch it. more

  • If it's been 3 weeks and you haven't been fired, depending on the allegations, you won't be.

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  • It all depends on your State if you are a right to work State they do not have to have a reason to fire you so look what your State is!

  • Why are you giving half baked information? You need help, bare it all please.

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  • You need to provide more information. What are the allegations, did you see the recording?

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