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Frank Kabwechere
Career development 1w
Dealing with complicated "Bosses"
Some time ago, I got a new “boss”. He seemed not to like me because he was always negative. Using my reflex reaction, I continuously changed him by doing the following:
• I didn’t care about him.
• He used to tease me but, I would stay cool and smile.
• I never defended my self.
• I have always showed that I am not sad about situations.
Last week we had a meeting and he was addressing me with honor and respect. I did not know that my psychological tricks above could change him. They did!
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  • Omotade Moses

    1
    6d
    Best answer

    Patient is a virtue that can change the hardest. Your wisdom commended

    1

  • Odung Willy

    2
    3d

    We should always remember to take care of challenging experience based on personality difference between one and the other then all reactions can... easily be managed  more

    1

  • benedict A Falana

    7
    6d

    You have to be more patient than ever before. Eat well.

    1

  • Omotade Moses

    1
    6d

    Patient is a virtue that can change the hardest. Your wisdom commended

    1

  • Frank Kabwechere

    6d

    Thanks for the comments and I also know that "only change"is permanent.He could negatively change any time!

  • PCI Push Community

    1w

    Individuals are created differently. Take time to understand him. It might be his personality. Be sure you are not misinterpreting his behaviour and... reaction to you. Overall, I like your resilience. more

  • Lisa Serradilla

    18
    1w

    Excellent outcome. Congratulations.

  • Ray Lebowski

    3
    1w

    One time is only a data point. Don't take being treated decently once as proof of real change. He could be faking you out.

  • Denise Owens

    1
    1w

    Excellent. Good advice!! Thanks for sharing.

  • Mojisola Adeleye

    1
    1w

    Wow!
    No sign of weakness was shown.

    1

  • ibrahim mshelia

    1w

    That's impressive. You have a good soft skill

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