My husband and parents don’t understand me. They ask how I could quit my job as a sous-chef and start working as a cook in a school cafeteria.
But I think this job is more important. When kids enjoy the food and even ask for more, it means a lot to me, more than a good review from a critic or a picky customer. Yes, I make less money, but it makes me feel really good.
Still my family doesn’t get it.

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  • Good for realizing that the work you are doing is not but service this important most of the people think that is what we are looking for but we look... for peace freedom and integrity. so pray that at one time they will understand but take as you serve happily enjoying the joy that these children give more

  • In this role you have countless opportunities each day to support young people and make a difference

  • If your husband and family all misunderstand you, you’re probably the problem.

  • Do what makes you happy.

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  • If you are happy that is what is important! Life is to short! Do what u have to do with no regrets@

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  • As long as this is something you can afford to do and your family does not have to bear a financial burden for you. Then yes of course, do what makes... you happy! God bless you! more

  • Do what makes you happy human being 👍

  • Culturally, all Americans know is getting more money! So you may never get them to understand it because despite our "christian" values, it's never... been about soul stirring and how to keep us happy humans, which many of us clearly are not. Do what makes you happy. We need more happy people. Clearly the rich are not happy either. Congrats on your choice. more

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  • If you explained to them and they din't get you, pliz continue with what makes you happy.

  • Explain the-differences between working because you Have to
    vs. working because you Enjoy doing it. There is a defining-line that separates these... two.

    (Humanities studies during my years in both High school and College.)
    Bon appetit!
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  • Let me give you some advice about family, they are your biggest critics, and the last to give you praise. You are living for yourself don't try to... appaise them. If what you do give you satisfaction then do it, its your gift from god, he will bless you, kids deserve good nutruiton to. And you just might inspire the next generation of cooks in the process. more

  • For me, satisfaction is key in whatever one ventures into.
    I'm sure your husband will come to that realisation sooner or later.

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  • I think it makes sense to talk to your husband about a job that makes less money. That's something that can cause issues. Perhaps you can cut back on... something and show this to help him understand that there is no penalty in your decision. Otherwise, you can explain the importance of your work, and its meaning to you. Many people, my husband included, focus on the money. Another thing that may be real is that there is no burn-out from your new job. That can be a major benefit. There are vacation perks that you two can take advantage of. There may be pension perks, health insurance perks. Summer perks. It may be a job that makes it easier to have children. Lots of benefits to help him see. Many people do not have the opportunity to work a "dream job", especially if they are breadwinners. This is something you have chosen to do. Its important to show him how it fits into your life as a couple, which is hopefully equally important.
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  • You are not money driven. Great for you!!! Continue enjoying what you are doing. They have no choice but to accept it and You 🫂

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  • The fact that being a chef in some company could earn your husband and parents more prestige, please as long as you attain pleasure from cooking for... children at some school, follow your heart dear. more

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  • Well done for following your heart and the pleasure this new job gives you. Making food for children who enjoy it is a worthy occupation. You are... earning a bit less money, but loving your work will keep you healthy and happy, while benefitting the children. That is worth your weight in gold! Believe in yourself, trust your gut feeling. Your family are worrying, maybe, but hopefully they will see that your happiness is more important, at least for the time being.  more

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  • Maybe give more details to your family about your old job and your new one. Maybe then at least one of them will truly understand what it is about the... new job that makes you appreciate it so much and what about the old job was so disagreeable. Best wishes. more

  • Thank you for caring about our children health and well being, some things are with more than a paycheck. It feeds your soul and that’s priceless.

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