I was left, no questions, didn't even get the opportunity to tag along, and I wanted to. You do you, but don't let an so drag you down. The world is... absolutely only about money, and will screw you at every turn.  more

Follow your heart and remember your beginning matters

This is a very personal decision, and there is no one-size-fits-all answer. I would have an honest conversation with my partner about our long-term... goals, the opportunities involved, and whether there are alternatives such as relocation later or a temporary long-distance arrangement. I would consider both career growth and the health of the relationship rather than allowing other people's opinions to make the decision for me. The best choice is one that aligns with our shared values and future plans. more

Do you have enough money in your pocket for future family life ?
Is your partner culturally , ethically and morally good ?
How good you both are in... analyzing / understanding things ?
The main reason your partner is opposing to this offer ?
Why she can't travel along with you ?
Any other unknown reasons ?
All these factors needs to be analyzed ... more

You are asking the question. That means you are inclined to take the offer. You would like your partner to come also. But that answer is negative. If... there is true commitment, you and your partner would figure something out. Video calls, meeting halfway etc. If your partner is not committed to your town, then a trip to the new city to explore job opportunities for the partner would be in order.
If your partner does not care about your ambitions and career advancement, then letting this job go will make you resentful. Letting go of such opportunity can put you way back in your career. Think long and hard, not just about today but also about 5 years hence. Then make the decision and do not look back. Good luck. more

If you significant other can move for you to better your career she should especially if shes qualified in her field of work 🙏🏻

Okay someone who loves and understands will always find out a way to make sure everything works out for the better of both of you but not favouring... one side .find out what he wants and how he wants it to work out so that you guys can agree on one thing don't let go of the opportunity if he truly loves you he can wait and be patient. more

Both a career and a lifelong partner are equally worthy investments. Is there a compromise? Can she stick with you if you take this opportunity and... keep flying back every so often? I am assuming working remotely is off the table. Just be prepared that part of you will blame her if things go badly, so you and she really need to figure out what her problem is. Make sure it's not her just being selfish and not wanting to sacrifice anything for you. You both seem to want to build a life together, so what alternative does she propose? Sit down and simply ask her what we can change to make this work, because it'll give us both a happier life unless she doesn't think so at all. more

Simple. If you two really love each other you will find a way to make it work. I’m not going to be the one that says stay or go. It’s always easier... to blame the other person when you do what THEY told you to do. What ever decision you make, you have to own it! more

Wash she aware of the new job when you applied for it? Did you discuss about it with her before applying for it? It's a good to to grow and progress.... Try and know her reason for not willing to go with you and explain why the job is important for you both because of the increase in salary. Save your relationship.  more

I’d probably look at it less as “career vs. relationship” and more as “what kind of life are we trying to build together?” Doubling your salary is a... huge opportunity, but so is protecting a relationship you genuinely value.

I’d want to understand why my partner doesn’t want to move, whether there’s any room for compromise, and whether the job is worth the impact beyond just the paycheck.
Maybe that means negotiating remote time, delaying the move, trying long distance temporarily, or deciding together that one opportunity isn’t worth losing the life you’ve built.

There isn’t an easy answer, but I don’t think choosing the relationship automatically means sacrificing your career—and choosing the job doesn’t automatically mean you care less about your partner. The important part is making the decision together, not letting outside opinions make it for you. more

Money may not be everything in life. Sometimes relationships also matter. You have to maintain balance between the two for smooth life ahead. Think... twice before taking a decision. more

Take the job. Partners should be able to adapt/compromise. Yeah, maybe you’ll find something similar near you. If you don’t, are you ok with losing... this opportunity? more

Great news! Now you know that your market value is double what you're making. Time to find it locally. To be honest, people asking you to move for a... job is a shitty offer (unless the job really requires it). Remote work pays 40% more. People that want you to be in the office for knowledge work are lame and usually just tribal. more

If you take the money and your relationship out of the equation for a moment, how do you truly feel about the opportunity? Is this something you are... truly excited about? Is there a way you could test it out for a few months and maybe look for corporate housing and fly back on the weekends? Is it hybrid or 100% in person? I’ve had clients try this first to see how it feels before cutting all ties. Just a thought. more

A person who doesn't support your career growth is not worth keeping my friend run for your life

Some opportunities are sent to elevate you while testing the adaptability of the relationship. Only you know what will work best, trust your... intuition. more

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Stay with your partner.Look for other better opportunities in your area.

I actually had this same scenario years ago, and I made the career move. After 43 years, I have no regrets. The opportunities that I received in LA,... I would have never received in New York. My sweetheart at the time did not want me to forfeit the great opportunity that was presented, and I will always love her for that. We are still friends to this day. I’m so glad she wasn’t selfish… more