The Interview That Changed Everything

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Let me take you back to an interview we had -- not long ago -- with a candidate whose résumé was an actual masterpiece.

MIT grad, five languages, built half the tools your team probably uses.

But somewhere between, "Tell us about your last team project," and "How do you handle feedback?" we realized... something was off.

No eye contact. No energy. The moment we brought up clients or communication, the vibe dipped like a bad internet connection.

We didn't hire him.

It wasn't about skills. It was about fit.

And more importantly -- it was about people.

At Einfratech Systems, we love a well-structured function as much as the next dev team. But if there's one thing we've learned over the last few years, it's this:

You can train a person to write better code.

You can't train them to care.

And no, we don't mean "care" in a fluffy, poster-on-the-wall way.

We mean: show up for your team. Handle hard conversations without dodging.

Keep the project moving even when the goalpost shifts.

That's what we mean when we say soft skills.

And in today's world of hybrid everything, they're not optional anymore.

Two years ago, we staffed a client's product rebuild.

Tensions ran high. The architecture was chaotic, timelines unrealistic, and the Slack threads?

Let's just say they weren't exactly friendly.

And yet -- one of our junior devs, Saira, quietly took it upon herself to check in with the project lead.

Reframed every confusing requirement into English.

Even wrote a "translation doc" for the offshore team. She never asked for recognition.

But she made the entire project work.

That's soft skill magic. And that's what we hire for now.

If you're someone who's great at translating tech speak into people speak, you're already ahead.

For us at Einfratech Systems, it's reshaped everything -- from our interview templates to who joins final-round panels.

Tech changes fast.

Every month, there's a new language, framework, or AI tool promising to "replace developers."

But no tool replaces trust.

Or tone.

Or knowing when to be quiet and just listen.

Want to share your experience with soft skills in tech? Let's talk in the comments.
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  • There is a difference between gen. z. and gen. xx. Although I understand it. It seems you know much more. I am some what isolated and alienated... from much of this. I feel I am included because of what I have in our community. Myself ,family , friends have been involved in community teams as well as orgs.thats why I understand. Your problem compares in what I am experiencing. Blockage. If you study a computer program and can't complete with an understanding. Blockage. Make sense. And I am not even caught up on Al. Although attending an event help to know and understand.  more

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