My daughter is 8 years old, and she was offered a role in a commercial. It's generally good money. But I'm concerned about ethical issues - a child's fame in today's world can even be dangerous. My...

Questions to Ask Yourselves
Is this a one-time opportunity or a step toward something ongoing?

What kind of commercial is it? (A national ad for a... toy vs. a local ad for a dentist are very different in exposure.)

Can you negotiate terms like how her name is used, or if her identity is somewhat protected?

Are you prepared to support her emotionally if she gets criticism or attention afterward?
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My daughter is 8 years old, and she was offered a role in a commercial. It's generally good money. But I'm concerned about ethical issues - a child's fame in today's world can even be dangerous. My...

Here's a breakdown of the main aspects to consider:

✅ Potential Positives
Financial Opportunity: Commercial work often pays well, and you could save... that money for your daughter's future (education, etc.).

Experience: If she’s genuinely interested in performing, this could be a safe, short-term way to explore it.

Confidence Building: Being on set can build skills like public speaking, patience, and teamwork.

⚠️ Real Concerns
Privacy & Exposure: Even one commercial can make a child recognizable. Depending on the brand and how it's aired, that could lead to unwanted attention.

Long-Term Impact: Some kids end up tying their self-worth to fame or external approval. That’s hard to undo.

Parental Disagreement: Your husband’s opposition isn’t something to brush aside. If both parents aren’t aligned, it could lead to resentment or conflict down the road.

Agency & Consent: Even though your daughter wants to do it, she’s 8—she may not fully grasp what public exposure means in the long ter more