My daughter is 8 years old, and she was offered a role in a commercial. It's generally good money.
But I'm concerned about ethical issues - a child's fame in today's world can even be dangerous.
My husband is against this job, but my daughter wants to do it.
I don't know what to decide.
Would you let your child act in a commercial?

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  • Both of my Goddaughter's did commercials as kids, sometimes with mom or dad or both in the same commercial. it was a wonderful experience for them and... they enjoyed it and when they didn't enjoy it anymore they stopped. The thing is you must be willing to be involved every step of the way and read all the details. It couldn't;t hurt to even have contracts read by an attorney before signing. Teach your daughter how to say no to what makes her feel uncomfortable and not second guess herself. She may never need to use that skill but it would be a shame if she did not have it in her arsenal. It could be a great opportunity and life experience if it is the right thing. Good Luck. more

  • I think the mom just wants it to be known that her daughter that is a star to her is just showing her off to everyone else and that the dad is kind... of like the bad guy here there’s some narcissistic personality disorder going on here with the mother this is a private matter to be discussed with the mother and father not with the influence of opinions of strangers in this forum Lady are you kidding me  more

  • Also in the industry, not sure if you are UK based. Sometimes it can be positive experience for a child but beware her being asked to do things you... don't feel comfortable with, even is she ok with it. I worked with a pushy director, who asked a child (who had a cold and to whose dad I said she shouldn't have been there - he replied, but she wanted to come) to lie down in a thin raggy dress on a very cold mud dwelling floor. I told him he would have to rethink his shots because I wasn't going to allow her to do it. I think parents sometimes feel swept up in the process, but at all costs, protect your daughter. I hope you both enjoy the experience 🙂 more

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  • A single commercial does’t make a child famous. Try it out. It can be a one and done or she may find her passion.

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  • Always read the contract and use chat gpt to proofread and asking to tell you what it says and what its missing for your daughter's best interest and... also add an AI Addendum. If they give you push back and a hard time about the modifications before signing, then they are not the right people to do business with. Don't be afraid to ask for what's fair and build the safest environment for your kid to have fun and do the commercial well and it will give both you and your husband a piece of mind  more

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  • I wonder how the child wanting to do it is included in this discussion. This child understands nothing about social media risk and the consequences of... such early exposure. I think it is very clear that if the Father doesn't want it, no amount of public opinion should be solicited to change his opinion he has a god whm he relies on in decision making. Social media is not a place to run a family from or try to get validation from.  more

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  • In my son’s class one mom is in commercial and her daughter was shooting too. They looks ok. And actually I did not notice any fame problems.

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  • Absolutely!! You will know if things are legit and can pull her when you want. Be diligent with the contracts.

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  • Do what Elijah Wood's mom did and never leave her alone with anyone in the industry, and advocate for her fearlessly if you do decide to proceed.

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  • I’d be extremely careful. Try hard to avoid signing anything that has effect beyond this one commercial. Good luck.

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  • I work in the industry, there are young people featured more than ever EVERYWHERE, not just TV/film. I see child actors everywhere too, hollywood,... etc. I don't know why people are so paranoid. I'd be more paranoid about yr child at school, where the possibility of predators exist more than at a commercial shoot. more

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  • Ultimately, you and your husband should make the final decision together. I will say that I have been in the modeling and commercial industry since I... was your daughter’s age. By no means am I famous, but I have enjoyed the opportunities. You and your husband can make the final decision as to l which jobs she auditions for and/or accepts. If you don’t like her agent, find another one. Set boundaries now and stick with them. This could be an amazing opportunity, not to mention fun!  more

  • That's a great opportunity. If she was chosen for the role, then she did well in her auditions. Usually, there are several auditions before the... finalist is offered a part. Was your husband OK with her auditioning, but now that she was chosen, he's had a change of heart? Since she is a minor, there are laws that the people producing the commercial have to adhere to. Plus, since she is only 8, as a parent, I would be on set during the filming. You don't mention what type of commercial it is. Also, if you end up allowing her to do this, she may find out acting is not for her,and she won't want to audition anymore?  more

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  • Common sense should enable you to know what to do. Has your child taking over your responsibility as a parent? Has money become more important than... godly upbringing of the child? Who should decide how the home should be run: your child, you or your husband (the head of the home)? When that innocent child gets corrupted now, the blame would go to the FATHER not even you the mother, who wants to push the child astray because of money. Thank you.  more

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  • Your concern is very valid. However, the most important thing he is how well you have trained your child to understand the difference between right... and wrong. I would definitely accept this office but continue to guide the child more

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  • I’ve done many commercials, nationals and local ones, and they don’t automatically lead to fame. That’s the laymen’s thought - I’m on TV I’m famous .... It can of course but that’s a long road which presents many challenges. I’d say absolutely accept because it’s a learning experience and could be terrific. If it’s not temperamentally suitable you and the child will learn that. So I’d encourage you all to give it a try -  more

  • Yes, I would gladly accept the job. What truly matters is the moral values you've instilled in her. Sometimes, when opportunities come our way, we... hesitate unaware that they could be part of our destiny. more

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  • Life is a risk. If you don't take one today, you may take one tomorrow. Or forget about progress. Assess the risk and make an informed decision.

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  • Your decision on the girl is quite important at this nip in time. Being a minor, parental position and guidance is necessary. Furthermore, having the... girl on commercial is not a new thing. The world is used to that but there must be protection on the child's future. I will suggest that the child should be supported to do it if it's morally and culturally acceptable. more

  • Let Daddy give a chance to a child to work 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

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